So some of what she says I find useful for women who are younger and in that phase of life. That this person could become a stranger, that his life could—no, will—keep going right along without you in it, that you will one day not know him, that he will not know you, that you may in fact become unknown, these are difficult propositions. Or does our obsessing over love stories harm real relationships? I would recommend it to people who are trying to figure out their version of love and relationships. In How to Fall in Love with Anyone Catron flips the script on love and offers a deeply personal, and universal, investigation.
It definitely made me think a lot about my views and experiences regarding love, dating, and marriage. May 12, Neeyati rated it liked it Shelves: The Invention of Dating by Moira Siegel, who says that dating didn’t need to be invented until the twentieth century when young people were free to move around and live their lives free of the supervision of their parents And Minimizing Marriage by Elizabeth Brake who challenges amatonormativity, the belief that everyone “should be in a central, exclusive, amorous relationship” The New I Do by Susan Pease Gaoua and Vicki Larson, that Catron and her husband used to create a contract a la Big Bang Theory’s roommate relationship agreement that spells out cleaning, dog-walking, money-splitting and even sex. At twenty, I wanted a love story almost as much as I wanted love itself. Books she mentions that sound interesting: There’s so much that I relate to and so much that I learned. Does love ever work the way we say it does in movies and books and Facebook posts?
But overall I liked hearing her journal style stories on her own encounters, her sister, parents and grandparents’ marriages along with the scientific experiments on the topic. The title is kind of misleading. She used one word I didn’t know: With thanks to the publisher for providing me mady an ARC in return for an honest review I’d argue no, and she does too, outlining a number of attachment theories and happiness studies from which we can draw advice and bust up our own myths about long-term monogamous devotion to one person.
Our views of love—what we want from it, what we think it should feel like—are rooted in the context of our lives. Raptors superfan Drake walks a oen line.
I suppose I’m on the fence about this book for two reasons. Men in persecuted hero roles, on the other hand, are allowed—even expected—to woo their love interests. Too ugly, I sometimes think, to even write.
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Jul 31, Sharon rated it really liked it. And I thought it was our duty to tell them, to keep the past alive in the present—to keep ourselves alive. She deconstructs her own personal canon of love stories, going back to when her grandparents first met in a coal mining town, and also her own dating life as a professor in Vancouver, drawing insights from lrn fascinating research into the psychology, biology, history and literature of love.
At one time marriage was mostly about economic stability, while we now expect our relationships to meet our needs for self-esteem and personal fulfillment. Essag 15, Malcolm Everett rated it it was amazing Shelves: Mar 14, Neshat rated it really liked it. A good option if you’ve been wanting to read Aziz Ansari’s Modern Romance but don’t want to support his work anymore. Granted there’s a few things I didn’t agree with the author about, but the book being her dssay and regaling her struggle struck me.
I really enjoyed this book – read it in two days on vacation. True love is the ultimate means of validation and personal transformation, and yet a virtuous woman should never pursue love directly.
Jun 22, Shannon Wise rated it liked it Shelves: Overall, this book was okay. To ask other readers questions about Esswy to Fall in Love with Anyoneplease sign up. Catron’s voice quickly won me over, and I entered into her story much as I would into that of a friend, stopping occasionally as I read to nod my head or question her choices.
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The book made me think a lot about how we could all be better to each other, if we all decided to value loving better more often. Special catrron The Globe and Mail.
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Part personal narrative, part anthropological study, part pop psychology, I found this an engaging and enlightening read. I understood why you might put off telling anyone about your separation: How to Fall in Love with Anyone: I had this book for a week and recommended it to more than 10 people before I had even finished it, which I think should be enough to convince you to add it to your To-Read list immediately!
Dec 10, Waverly Fitzgerald rated it liked it Shelves: If you’re interested in buying How to Fall in Love with Anyonejust click on the image below to go through my esszy. I’m a print subscriber, link to my account Subscribe to comment Why do I need to subscribe?